As a parent, one of the most important things you do is to help your children learn healthy eating habits. Children need a balanced diet with food from all four food groups—vegetables and fruit, grain products, milk and alternatives, and meat and alternatives.


Children need 3 meals a day and 1 to 3 snacks (morning, afternoon and possibly before bed). Healthy snacks are just as important as the food you serve at meals.


The best foods are whole, fresh and unprocessed—fresh fruits and vegetables, whole grains, dairy, and meats; and home-cooked meals.


Canada’s Food Guide recommends:





Vegetables and fruit


Vegetables and fruit are a source of vitamins, minerals and fibre.


4 servings/day

2-3 years of age

5 servings/day

4-8 years of age

6 servings/day

9-13 years of age


Choose at least one dark green and one orange vegetable or fruit every day.





Grain products


Grains are an important source of energy from carbohydrates.


3 servings/day

2-3 years of age

4 servings/day

4-8 years of age

6 servings

9-13 years of age


Make at least half of the grain products whole grain.





Milk and alternatives


Milk is a nutritious source of calories, as well as calcium and vitamin D, for growing children. Some milk alternatives (e.g., fortified soy beverage) have vitamin D added. Check labels for calcium and vitamin D content.


2 servings

2-8 years of age

3-4 servings

9-13 years of age



After children turn 2 years old, you can offer lower fat milk (1% or 2% MF) or milk alternatives. Wait until children are at least 5 years old before offering skim milk.





Meat and alternatives


Meat and alternatives are an important source of iron and protein.


1 serving

2-8 years of age

1-2 servings

9-13 years of age



Choose a variety of lean meat, poultry, and de-boned fish, eggs, tofu, dried peas, beans and lentils.


The Guide recommends you eat at least 2 servings of fish per week.



Your child might not eat the recommended amount from each food group every day. But if you offer a good variety, she’ll probably get what she needs over the course of a week or two.


Sugar and sugar substitutes

• Offer foods that don’t have added sugar or sugar substitutes. Limit refined sugars (sucrose, glucose-fructose, white sugar) honey, molasses, syrups, and brown sugar. They all have similar calorie counts and also contribute to tooth decay.

• Sugar substitutes such as aspartame and sucralose are used in many processed foods. While they don’t cause early child tooth decay, they have no nutritional value and it’s a good idea to limit them in your child’s diet. Sweeteners are much sweeter than sugar and may lead to a habit of only liking sweet foods. This might make it difficult for your child to adjust to fruits and vegetables.


Juice and water

• Serving fruit instead of fruit juice also adds healthy fibre to your child’s diet.

• Serve vegetables and fruit more often than fruit juice. Offer water when your child is thirsty, especially between meals and snacks. Limit juice to one serving (120 mL [4 oz.]) of 100% unsweetened juice a day.

• Sometimes children will drink too much at mealtime or between meals, making them feel full.


What about fat?


Healthy fats contain essential fatty acids like omega-3 and omega-6 that cannot be made in the body and must come from the diet. Cook with vegetable oils such as canola, olive and/or soybean. Healthy fats are also found in most vegetable oils, salad dressings, non-hydrogenated margarines, nut butters (e.g. peanut butter) and mayonnaise.


Many fats that are solid at room temperature contain more trans and saturated fats that can raise your risk of heart disease. Limit butter, hard margarines, lard and shortening. Read labels and avoid trans or saturated fats found in some store-bought products, such as cookies, donuts and crackers.


Limit processed meats, such as wieners and luncheon meats, which are also high in fat, sodium (salt), and nitrates.


What if my child is a picky eater?


Don’t worry too much if your child doesn’t seem to be eating enough. If his weight and size is on track, he’s probably getting what he needs. Your child’s doctor will monitor his growth at regular appointments and will let you know if there are any problems.


Children’s appetites change from day-to-day, or even from meal to meal. Because they have small stomachs, children need to eat small amounts often throughout the day. Children know how much food they need and will eat what their body needs.


As the parent, it’s your job to:

• Set regular meal and snack times that work for the whole family. Share mealtimes and eat with your children.

• Offer a balance and variety of foods from all four food groups at mealtimes. Include at least two of the four food groups for each snack.

• Offer food in ways they can manage easily. For example cut into pieces, or mash food to prevent choking in younger children.

• Help your children learn to use a spoon or cup so they can eat independently.

• Include your child in age appropriate food preparation and table setting.

• Avoid using dessert as a bribe. Serve healthy dessert choices, such as a fruit cup or yogurt.

• Show your child how you read labels to help you choose foods when shopping.

• Avoiding fast food restaurants shows your children the importance of enjoying mealtime as a family, while eating healthy home cooked meals.


It’s your child’s job to:

• Choose what to eat from the foods you provide at meal and snack time (and sometimes that may mean not eating at all).

• Eat as much or as little as she wants.